BabyCenterReviews 235

The community is a cesspool of hateful, mentally unstable women. The majority of them are hypocrites who abuse people while claiming they're the voice of reason. If you were really BTDT, you'll be empathetic than abuse someone saying they're a fool, and don't deserve to be a mother. The admins of the site know this but do nothing.

Amazing resources, love the weekly updates that we get on the growth of baby. The app is super user friendly too!

Beware. If you are not a religious SAHM with a perfect marriage you will get abused by the women on this site. I posted asking advice because I was experiencing jealousy. I got attacked by dozens of women asking me personal questions about my marriage, shaming me for how long I'd been married, how quickly I got pregnant, shaming my childhood trauma, just alot of personal attacks and for no good reason other then to beat you down. Apparently you have to fit into a perfect mold or you're a bad mom, a bad and toxic person, etcetc. Evil cackling hens who are on a high horse and want to cause people suffering.

Oh boy! I thought the Cafe Mom site was horrible so I started going to this site. At first it was cool but then over the years it just went downhill. There are certain members who have been on here for years who are allowed to say what they want, be rude, bully and talk about others with out any consequences but once the poster defends themselves including me it's DELETE DELETE DELETE. They throw the word therapy around like a ball and are always accusing the woman of needing therapy but never the man. If you flip it around and ask them why is it that their husband's aren't seeking therapy they will delete the whole post. Oh and please do not use the word ALL because they will delete your post and accuse you of Gender Generalization. If you say "All men are the same" Delete. "A woman will always take a man back" Delete. One day they allowed my post to stay up for 3 days under my post the comments were awful and had vile words in it but when I mentioned a husband needing therapy under someone else's post they deleted the post right away.

Biggest bunch of bullies I've ever come across, most of them are admin/moderators so if you call them out on it you get banned, and called a liar with multiple usernames! If you have a different opinion to the majority your bullied and hounded till you leave, Debates and discussions is notorious for it, it seems to be run by a few long time members, most likely the same person that has nothing better to do with her life. Uneducated leftist views. Steer clear of users W_a_l_k_e_r, Anonu0864b, Cogs3, ymofive. Most likely all the same user and admins so no help if you need it. Delete and move along

The app is easy to use while pregnant but becomes a negative ad filled mess post pardum. The week by week tracker articles are poorly written and end with something negative for example my baby is 4 months and the reading about milestones and stuff starts off great then at the end of says what are signs of pinkeye? Why? My baby doesn't have pink eye or pink eye isn't a milestone why not put that somewhere else in the app like a common illnesses or a finder for someone looking for it? The week after what is an ear infection? Why? It's a negative ending to each week which leaves users with a bad feeling afterwards. I don't feel happy after using the app. I always look to other baby apps to shine a positive light to the weekly milestone because this one sucks at it. Look at "what to expect" they way they do it is much better all negative parts are to the side.

Made the huge mistake of positing a genuine questions on the AIBU and was absolutely hounded by awfully rude women using harsh language and inappropriate comments. I was genuinely shocked since I posted in good faith.

Really attracts a certain type of Karen and frankly I'm horrified how some of hear 'mothers' talk about other peoples kids.

It really affected my mental health sadly.

Seeing others say the same thing has restored my sanity.

AVOIDDD

Just find any positive review. Those are the people that bully and bring people down, then leave good reviews because they enjoy it. They peaked in high school and are sham's now looking for that same mean girl high they got when they picked on the EC kids

A cesspool of unpleasant, unhappy, bored women who take pleasure in drama and cutting others down. Many of these women live on the internet. I honestly don't understand how they work or pay attention to their family given the devotion to this site. Really took a dive into extreme leftism in 2016 and dug the whole deeper in 2020 during the pandemic. No outside opinions that divert from the leftist narratives and agendas are welcome and you will be ganged up on for expressing them. If you value debate, freedom of speech, common sense, tolerance, and compassion this site is NOT for you.

If you're looking at the community tab, hoping to find some people in a similar situation as you that could offer advice or be helpful, then go for it. Sometimes you're able to find that.
But besides that, don't even bother. I see so many people posting questions they have and then they get bullied in the comments. Most of them even come from group owners themselves. They go back and forth being hateful and its so nasty.
They will 100% make fun of you and wish ill upon you. I've even seen some people keep track of others posts and their life, trying to insert themselves and say 'well didnt you post [x]? So you're lying about [x]' etc. wtf?
Also if you struggle with infertility, pcos, endo, etc - this is NOT a healthy website to be on for your mental health. Ive seen people joke about those things often.